The Barbican's Handcannon Emplacement deals a lot of damage to gilded men-at-arms, but their tankiness and the emplacement's slow attack speed mean it's not enough alone.
Against OOTD's gilded men-at-arms, Chinese can rush to castle age and use Imperial Officials to supervise production buildings for fast crossbow production.
Chinese Fire Lancers are effective against gilded men-at-arms but struggle against gilded Spearman and gilded crossbows.
Against OOTD, a single gilded knight can be game-ending, so make sure to wall your flanks.
China has that super quick pro scout, but if you don't have the gold for an Imperial Official, you're going to have a problem getting professional scouts as quickly.
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